A little while ago, I was talking to a friend of mine and he told me about a problem he was struggling with. I asked him,
“Okay, so what do you think you could try doing?”
And his response was simply…
“…well, I guess I could try harder?”
At this point, alarm bells started going off in my head. I’ve often heard people say that they just need to “try harder” when they have a problem they’re struggling to solve. Heck, I’ve even said it myself!
- I’m having trouble writing? I’ll try harder!
- I can’t seem to get in shape? I’ll try harder!
- I’m not getting enough work done? Looks like I have to try harder!
I mean, it sounds logical, right? If I’m trying to solve a problem and I have an issue that I can’t seem to get past, then shouldn’t trying…harder…make a difference? Over time, I’ve come to realize that…
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