Hey! Ever felt like this before?

  • “I don’t know how to meet women now that I’m not in college. I don’t have a huge group of friends, and I don’t really enjoy going to bars to meet women”
  • “I always enjoyed being alone before, but now I want someone to care for, someone to hold hands with, someone I can talk to about my feelings”
  • “I don’t know how to talk to a woman without running out of things to say”

If so, you’ve come to the right place.

Hi, I’m Steven Zawila – Wholesome dating coach and founder of Quietly Romantic.

For a long time, I had felt like being an introvert made dating more difficult. It almost felt like some sort of curse upon my dating life. I didn’t know how to meet women after I had graduated from college, since every day after work I was comfortable just going home and reading a book or enjoying some video games in the quietness of my own home.

If I did meet a woman I wanted to talk to, a lot of times I would think about all the bad things that could happen and just psyche myself out of talking to her.

“She’s probably not interested” or “she probably already has a boyfriend” I would tell myself.

And if I did try to talk to her, I would either run out of things to say or I would just end up asking her more and more questions until it felt like a job interview instead of a conversation.

Flirting? Don’t even get me started, I had no idea how to flirt. How are you supposed to do it? How do you tell if she is flirting or just being friendly?

Dating is rough for introverts. Women naturally get approached just for being there, while introverted guys are still expected to be the initiators even though it’s often terrifying to do so. Many extroverts just seem to get their perfect relationships handed to them on a silver platter just for living their normal lives.

Are we required to make ourselves more extroverted to find love?

Thankfully, we don’t have to.

Imagine having a woman who understands you and loves you for who you are. Someone you can turn to for emotional support. Someone you can share your birthday with and celebrate the holidays together. Someone familiar to hold at night, to vent to when you’re having a bad day, or to just be there for you.

I’d love to help you make that happen. Let the other guys and gals worry about hookups. I’m here to help you find a woman who gets you.

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4 thoughts on “About

  1. Hi Steven,

    My name is Anuj Agarwal. I’m Founder of Feedspot.

    I would like to personally congratulate you as your blog Charming Introvert has been selected by our panelist as one of the Top 50 Introvert Blogs on the web.


    I personally give you a high-five and want to thank you for your contribution to this world. This is the most comprehensive list of Top 50 Introvert Blogs on the internet and I’m honored to have you as part of this!

    Also, you have the honor of displaying the badge on your blog.


  2. Ugly dude tries to give advice on dating?! LMFAO. Attractive men have SO MUCH MORE EXPERIENCE than this guy…and they tell it like it is on TRP and MGTOW

    1. Translation:

      “I tried following TRP and MGTOW and I’m not getting results. I’m bitter that someone else has been getting results without following either TRP or MGTOW, because this disproves the sleazy advice I’ve been following and this hurts my precious little feelings.

      Instead of admitting that I’ve been following bad advice and changing my ways, I’m going to lash out at Steve by calling him an “ugly dude” on the internet. That’ll show him!”

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