Welcome to Quietly Romantic!

Hey, I’m Steve! Introvert (INFJ), nerd, bookworm.

First, sign up below and you’ll get my free “How to Talk to Women” conversational cheat sheet that will show you exact words you can use to approach her, to keep the conversation going, and then to get her number or ask her out–even if you’ve never had a girlfriend before!

Then, browse through the sections below to see the very best of my dating advice. Or, check out the blog to see what I’ve written since the beginning of time.

Talking to women

Use these exact words to get your next date
An Introvert’s Guide to Talking to Women
What are you supposed to talk to her about?
How to stop running out of things to say when talking to her

Where to meet women

How to meet women WITHOUT going to bars or clubs
Five awesome places to meet women

Being confident

What pickup gets wrong about being confident
The boring, mundane way to be confident
Three ways I made myself more confident

Flirting & Dating

How to flirt with women as an introvert
How I personally flirt
How to have a great first date with women you meet online
Why you NEVER take advice from The Red Pill

Living an honest life

The value of enough in a culture of scarcity
How to go high when other’s go low in today’s political climate
What I learned from my first sexual experience

Friday Romantics

Social skills with Jeremy Kochis
Dating quality women with Brian Pippard
Overcoming your fear and emotions around women with Max Nachamkin
A letter to a friend with Amin Lakhani