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From the Quietly Romantic headquarters of INFJ Steven Zawila…
My heart skipped a beat when I saw her.
She was a cute woman that I had a crush on for months. Every time I saw her, I wished that I could confidently walk up and start talking to her…without always overanalyzing whether I was saying the “right” thing or whether I was coming off as weird and awkward. I wished that I could talk to her and effortlessly make the conversation funny and flirty. I wished that I could just talk to her and have her like me back.
I’d spend weeks and weeks agonizing over how I was going to ask her out. But every time I tried, I would stop myself and just tell myself excuses such as “she would never be interested in me” or “she probably already has a boyfriend”.
Were any of those excuses really true? I don’t know. The truth was that I always told myself those things because I was afraid of putting myself out there and getting shot down by someone that I really liked.
I mean, how do you even start talking to her? What are you supposed to talk to her about? How do you get her to go out with you? How are you supposed to flirt with her? (And what does “flirting” even mean??)
Maybe if I somehow managed to figure out…
…how to be confident and overcome my nerves….
…how to make the conversation flirty and funny…
…how to even talk to her without freaking running out of things to say!…
…then maybe…just maybe…I’d be able to get a date with her.
But I had no idea how to do any of that! So, like any person looking for information, I turned to good ol’ Google for advice. And unfortunately, I didn’t find a lot of that helpful dating advice I was hoping for.
There were three main problems that kept coming up whenever I tried to find good dating advice online.
Why isn’t there a lot of dating advice out there geared toward sensitive introverts who want honest relationships without any game-playing?
When it comes to most dating advice online, I’ve found that there are three main problems.
1) The first problem is that most advice involves playing games for flat-out just being a jerk.
Supposedly, women secretly love men who mistreat them even if they tell you otherwise. To get her attention, you should “neg” her by giving her an insult disguised as a compliment. And then after the first date you should wait…um, how long was it…three days before you call her? That way she won’t think you’re needy and she’ll start to miss you. Or something like that.
What if I want a relationship without any of that game playing?
There’s advice telling you to be “cocky + funny” or to use “push/pull” or to be a “challenge” or to generally be an ass toward women. And that just felt…weird to me. Like I’d almost rather be single than resort to following that type of advice.
What makes this worse is that you see the girl falling for the bad boy all the time in fiction. How many movies have we watched where the girl falls for the guy after he forcibly kisses her?! Princess Leia falls for renegade Hon Solo in Star Wars. Pretty much every James Bond film involves 007 forcefully seducing the “Bond-girl”.
Sure, all that advice about being a jerk feels wrong, but after hearing it so many times and seeing the girl falling for the “bad boy” protagonist all the time in the movies, I couldn’t help but wonder if it was actually true. (Hint: It’s not. More on that later.)
2) The second problem with most dating advice is that a lot of advice comes from men who are totally unqualified to be giving dating advice.
The realm of dating advice suffers from the same issue as politics or religion. People don’t feel they need to have any particular education, training, or experience to have opinions about it. All they need is strongly held beliefs, and suddenly they think they’re an expert.
You can’t call yourself a doctor without passing med school. You can’t call yourself a pilot without passing flight school You can’t call yourself a CPA or lawyer without passing their respective professional exams.
That’s not the case for dating advice.
There’s no “barrier to entry” to calling yourself a dating coach, so pretty much anyone with an internet connection, a douchebag personality, and an unchecked ego can call themselves a dating advice guru.
And, unfortunately, they do.
I found article…after article…after article…written by men who claimed to know the “secret nature” of women. From people who claim that they know how to seduce “any woman” (even lesbians, apparently.) From guys who said that what they’re preaching is “the truth” and that if you disagree then you’re being a “beta” who’s simply going against “reality”.
Today, it’s clear to me that all of those men are simply full of hot air. But back then, when I was clueless and inexperienced around dating, it wasn’t obvious to me which dating advice I should follow. To someone who doesn’t have any dating experience, all this crap advice from guys with bloated egos can definitely seem plausible.
And that scares me.
(By the way, the concept of “alpha males” has been outdated since 1999! If someone is talking to you and they’re using the terms “alpha” and “beta” unironically, that’s a pretty clear sign they have no idea what they’re talking about.)
3) Finally, the third problem is that most dating advice assumes men just want sex. Much of the advice out there involves getting lots of women to sleep with you, or going into a bar and seducing a woman you’ve never even met before just so you can hookup with her.
I mean, there’s nothing wrong with hookups or casually sleeping around. As long as it’s consensual then I personally don’t have any issues. But it seems like every good dating advice book for men is centered around seduction rather than romance.
Sure, sex is nice, but for me it’s not the end-all-be-all of a relationship. For me, personally, sex and romance go hand-in-hand. I’ve never cared for having lots of casual sex with many different women. When it comes to sex, I’d much rather do it with a woman that I admired, respected, and deeply cared about rather than someone I just met in a bar or club.
Given that most dating advice either…
- Encourages you to be a jerk or asshole toward women, or
- Was clearly written by someone with a douchebag personality and unchecked ego, or
- Is focused more on seduction and hookups than actual relationships??
…where do you turn if you’re a gentle, introverted soul who simply wants an honest, genuine, authentic relationship without any game-playing?
How to find love and stay true to your wholesome, gentle, introverted soul
Instead of following all that mainstream dating advice around game-playing or seduction, I decided to take a chance and stay true to my heart. Want to know what happened?
Let me give you an idea…
Imagine, you have a girlfriend who understands your hobbies, your personality, your quirks, and all those things that make you…“you”. She’s someone who see not just your strong personality traits, but also your character flaws. And she not only accepts them, but she loves you even more because of them.
Holidays are now more fun because you get to celebrate them with someone you love. It’s 11:59 pm on New Year’s Eve, and the two of you are watching the clock eagerly awaiting the seconds as the pass by (and maybe drinking some Coke if you don’t normally stay up that late).
It’s 11:59:07 pm…
Now 11:59:08 pm…
And now 11:59:09 pm…
Finally, the two of you turn toward each other and yell “Happy New Year!!” You wrap your arms around her and give her a kiss as the clock strikes midnight and the new year arrives.
Valentine’s Day rolls around. Sure, it might not be a “real” holiday, but now you have an excuse to do something soppy and romantic for that woman you love. Maybe it’s making a reservation at that romantic restaurant down the street. Maybe it’s watching that new rom-com in the theaters. Or, maybe it’s just buying some flowers, some candies, and some heart-shaped flowers for the woman you love.
(Or if you’re like me, you’ll wait until the day after Valentine’s Day and buy them half-off!)
Imagine that it’s your birthday. Everyone you know is freaking out about turning older and not being young anymore and all the goals they still haven’t accomplished yet and yadda yadda yadda. Not you, though.
You and your girlfriend go out and buy a cake. The two of you head back to your place to celebrate. You carefully take the cake out of its box and place it onto the table. One by one, you place the candle on top of the cake and light them up.
She leans in close to you. “Make a wish,” she whispers.
You inhale deeply and then blow out the candles. You know that you’re supposed to keep your wish a secret, but you can’t help glancing knowingly at her and letting a smile cross your face.
It’s already come true. Spending your birthday with the woman you love makes it that much more special.
Christmas rolls around. Winter is here and it’s getting colder, so the two of you share a blanket and huddle together on the couch while watching a classic Christmas movie such as “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” or “It’s a Wonderful Life.”
You’ve bought each other gifts and now that December 25th has finally arrived, you’re excited to unwrap them and see what she bought you. What’s even more exciting, however, is waiting for her to open the gifts you bought and seeing that look of wonder and surprise light up her face. Just like when you were kids.
That’s what really matters on Christmas. It’s not about the gifts you bought for each other. It’s about spending the holidays with someone special.
There’s one more thing I want you to imagine.
Think of something that you’ve been hoping for a long time. Stop right here and take a second to think of what it might be. What might it be?
Maybe it’s that promotion at work. Maybe you passed that exam you were struggling with. Maybe you went to a conference and had an awesome time. Or, maybe you just finished reading that amazing book and you feel that bittersweet pang of reaching the end and having enjoyed an amazing journey. Whatever it was, you’ve achieved it.
And now, you have someone special to share the good news with.
“How was your day?” she asks you, her face beaming with anticipation. You tell her all the awesome things that happened today. She leans forward, listening to every word you say. When you’re finished, she wraps her arms around you and gives you a kiss. And suddenly, your day has become that much more amazing because you have someone special to share it with.
Now, imagine the opposite. Try to recall the last time that nothing just seemed to go your way. Maybe you had a tough day at work. Maybe you couldn’t pass that exam, even though you know you studied hard. Maybe you accidentally ripped your favorite pair of clothes. Or, maybe you just reached the end of that book and your favorite character died.
Instead of going through it alone, now you have someone to pick you up when you’re feeling down.
“How was your day?” she asks you, just as she always does. You look down for a second, shake your head, and sigh wistfully.
“Not so good”, you reply.
“Oh,” she says softly. “Want to tell me about it?” she asks, placing her arm across your back and snuggling in close to you. As you begin to recall the moments of your day, you smile and begin to feel as if a great weight were lifted off your shoulders. Now you’re not alone anymore. Now, you have someone to pick you up when you’re feeling down.
Someone who you have a genuine, deep-level admiration and respect for (and who feels the same way about you).
Sure, the sex is good, but it’s more than just about that. It’s about having someone special to share fun times and happiness with. It’s about those dumb in-jokes we have together and getting random texts from her that say “Love you” and having someone familiar to come home to and just talk about how our day was going. It’s about having that you can hold hands with and turn to for support when you’re feeling down and who you can build a life together as a team.
And when you’re with her, you’re in a special place that words fall short of doing justice. Like…a bubble from the outside world where you’re free from all the pressures of life. A secret place where you can take off your make and let your gentle, sensitive side come out. A safe space for your heart and soul.
When you’re with her, you’re home.
That’s the kind of relationship I have with my wife today, and that’s what I want to help you achieve as well.
Even if you’re socially awkward, or if you think you’re a boring person, or if you’ve never been on a date before! Check out the results from students just like you:
“It’s the first time since I was 20 in which I made it past the first date with a girl or was close to making her my girlfriend. We ended up dating for 4 months! This year was a milestone for me in terms of dating and I hope it continues to be for the remainder of the year. Felt like I finally ended the single streak this year.” – Andy S.
“Good news! I had my second date with her last night! I’m looking to get a third date. I’m very proud of myself.” – Tony C.
“I had been single all my life and never had a relationship. I hadn’t dated in 11 years and have been rejected by women that approached me and wound up in the friend zone. I’ve had some that never told me they had a boyfriend, which I found strange and didn’t find out till later. Now, I think I’m able to talk to girls.” – Jacob H.
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Today, I’m unveiling my very best scripts, techniques, and frameworks for talking to women. These are the same principles that took me from being a single, shy, timid person to the married man that I am now.
In fact, today I continue to use all the frameworks and principles that I teach in this course. For talking to acquaintances, friends, and even women! (and by “women” I mean my wife).
All of the principles in this course involve being genuine and authentic. They don’t revolve around using pickup-artistry, or game-playing, or pretending to be something that you’re not.
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Throughout this 2-hour course, I’ve complied over 30 scripts for talking to women and explained why each one works.
I’ve also gone one step further.
You see, scripts are one thing. They’re incredibly helpful—and they’re a lot of them included in this course—but I want to prepare you for almost any situation you encounter.
So, I’ve included the mindsets and frameworks that generated those scripts. In addition to learning the exact words I would say, you’ll learn how I came up with those words. That way, you’ll gain the social skills needed to gracefully navigate almost any social situation you find yourself in…even if you’re socially awkward or you don’t have a huge social circle!
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I used to be a late bloomer. Everything in this course comes from years of failing over and over again in talking to women. Today, I’m happily married. I’ve been there before, and this course includes everything I wish I knew back then.
You already know what kind of dating advice Quietly Romantic is about. This is a course built by a sensitive soul who used to struggle with finding love and talking to women for years. There’s no pickup artistry or sleazy advice here. Just wholesome, authentic dating advice you won’t find anywhere else.
I invite you to take the frameworks and scripts in this course and try talking to women. See what happens. Even if you don’t believe in yourself. Because you know what? I believe in you! Once you learn to talk to women, you’ll naturally become much more confident and you’ll feel like a better man.
If you apply all the materials in this program and you still can’t talk to women, then I’m more than happy to give you a full refund. I’m THAT confident that this will work for you because these are the exact frameworks that I used to make myself a more attractive man for my girlfriend—now my wife. So if you don’t LOVE this program, I insist that you get 100% of your money back. Just shoot me an email within 60 days and you’ll get a full refund, no questions asked. It’s that simple.
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What’s makes a great relationship?
Sex is nice, sure, but it’s more than just the sex. It’s about finding someone to share fun times and happiness with. Having someone you can vent to when you’re having a bad day. Someone who can be there for you when you’re not feeling well. Someone to support you emotionally when you’re feeling down.
It’s about finding someone to hold hands with and someone to go traveling with…or someone to just sit on the couch and cuddle with while watching movies together. It’s about having someone you can be emotionally intimate with. Someone familiar to hold at night and just lay there together.
It’s about having someone to care for. Someone you can bounce ideas off of and talk to about your feelings. Someone you can love and still be best friends with. Someone special to talk to at the end of the day.
Ultimately, it’s about finding a woman who “gets” you. A woman whom you can totally just be yourself around. A woman who knows your likes and dislikes, your flaws, your quirky character traits, and who loves you all the same.
That’s what I want to help you achieve. You don’t have to go it alone! Let’s do it, together.
See you inside.